tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7686180526390153858.post7478894410265741902..comments2013-03-06T12:26:27.961+00:00Comments on Be Inspired: Forgiveness - a Christmas Gift to YourselfStuhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16233505879014157104noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7686180526390153858.post-60083047542879043562010-12-24T10:33:19.054+00:002010-12-24T10:33:19.054+00:00Thanks Sam, glad you've enjoyed browsing.Thanks Sam, glad you've enjoyed browsing.Stuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16233505879014157104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7686180526390153858.post-72172265372607756802010-12-24T10:19:15.085+00:002010-12-24T10:19:15.085+00:00Nice blog very interesting to see what you have be...Nice blog very interesting to see what you have been up to stu!Sam Leachhttp://www.slim-drops.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7686180526390153858.post-25871994242325571672010-12-17T21:24:46.500+00:002010-12-17T21:24:46.500+00:00Hi C,
In my experience the way to forgivness is to...Hi C,<br />In my experience the way to forgivness is to first figure out what you gain. What you gain from not forgiving versus what you can gain from forgiving. This is quite confusing to a lot of people as there are so many circumstances in which we can become ‘hurt’ that it seems crazy to think of ourselves gaining anything from it.<br />Actually if you look real hard you will always find something is being gained, whether it’s the need to feel angry so as to keep guilt or grief at bay, or maybe the deep desire to be ‘right’ about some occurance that you can’t relinquish your position.<br />Look and you will find it, sometimes it’s buried deep other times it’s disguised as something else. But search for the ‘gain’ and you are sure to find it.<br />Once identified it becomes so much easier to realise how forgiveness can actually reduce your pain so considerably that it becomes the obvious choice.<br />Good luck<br />StuStuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16233505879014157104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7686180526390153858.post-86990130037370327972010-12-17T19:51:40.348+00:002010-12-17T19:51:40.348+00:00This comment has been removed by the author.Stuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16233505879014157104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7686180526390153858.post-37028507544259898772010-12-17T19:50:19.721+00:002010-12-17T19:50:19.721+00:00This comment has been removed by the author.Stuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16233505879014157104noreply@blogger.com